Look To The Future
As a couple you inevitably go through rough patches. During these rough times you should be able to think to the future together and think about how things will be once you have gotten over your current wobble. This is much better than looking back to the past and thinking about how things used to be. Things change and sometimes we can’t go back to the way we used to be. Instead picture yourselves happy in the future having overcome whatever it is that is causing your current problems. This will help you move on and rise above the problem you are facing.
If you do have issues you can’t over come together that doesn’t mean you have to give up. You can seek help to help you come out the other side happy. Therapy such as hypnosis can help break deep rooted problems with relationships.